“In The Beginning Was The Word” . . .

The word is a force–a powerful tool we have to express ourselves freely, as we see fit. Good to remember, though, that the words we use to communicate may leave a long-lasting imprint on the minds of those who are on the receiving end.

The power of the word must not be understated. Depending on how we use our word, it can evoke emotions–sometimes very strong ones–in another. If we use our words as “weapons”, it can cut down to the very core of a person, leaving a scar that may never quite heal–especially if we happen to be an authority figure of some kind. It’s always best to make a point of paying attention to how we may affect someone else by the words we use.

History reveals just how powerful words can be on a massive scale–capable of manipulating minds and destroying lives. What happened in Nazi Germany is a palpable example of how costly using words of hate and racial prejudice truly can be. Hitler hooked the attention of his people and downloaded fear and hatred, poisoning their minds to do his bidding. This form of contamination is like a destructive virus that infects the core of a computer.  The damage that it does is irreparable.

We must take responsibility for the words we use. Is it our intention to love, or is it to cause fear and pain? Learning to choose our words in the most mindful manner is truly an art. Carelessness of what we express can have painful repercussions and at times, change the course of a person’s life. It’s particularly vital when we’re in a position of authority that we take great care in the words we use to communicate, especially when dealing with the tender mind of a child. Think before you speak! 

How often do you pay attention to your body language when speaking? Most of us don’t. However, it can easily reveal the emotion behind the words used and the intent is then communicated clearly. Sometimes this “unspoken language” exposes our unconscious agenda more profoundly than the actual words that come out of our mouths.

Have you ever given someone “your word”? This verbal contract is completely secured by your integrity–it must be as “good as gold”. If someone puts their trust in you and you don’t follow it up with an action, then your word will be worthless going forward. That is a sure path to a damaged reputation.

We always have the choice to be mindful. We can choose to use our words to love, comfort, support and encourage others. We can also choose to hold our tongue when we are caught up in the whirlwind of an emotion. Not much good comes out of communicating when in we’re in emotional turmoil, does it?   

“Be Impeccable With Your Word:

Speak With Integrity

Say Only What You Mean

Avoid Using the Word to Speak Against Yourself or Others

Use the Power of Your Word in the Direction of Truth and Love”

           From “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz

 

Each One of Us Holds The Future of the World in Our Hands!